Why do I get paranoid when I see girls that are very touchy towards my current bf?

[zulfiqarali]

It's natural that girls feel from other girls... so just relaxed.. I think u trust people blindly and not observe their behaviour... you should draw lines for girls that should be between normal friends and girl friends.. filtering every time get together.. interrupting dates should not be tolerated and u should clear it to other girls and boy friend by ur behaviour and by words... I m sorry about your past but I think u r lucky that u come to know about these people early... I think u should talk to ur boyfriend about his girl friends about thier behaviour... keep eye in them and avoid them and not let them destroy ur time with boyfriend... I suggest to hangout with ur boyfriend alone.. trust him but keep check... analyze ur past and learn from it

[AussieGirl1989]

You're stabling into a relationship and feel untoward yet he's yours he is that's just what other women do he must be fetching

[Logorithim]

It's completely understandable that you feel this way. Talk to your boyfriend and explain to him what bothers you and why.

[djmzes]

it is ok to be protective but too much means you do not trust ur boyfriend at some point and being too protective starts subconsciously create doubts.

Now even the girls are approaching ur boyfriend, it is ok if your boyfriend knows what loyalty, honesty and commitment mean. If he does not know and act upon it , then whether you are protective or not, the result will be the same: cheating.

[markscott]

Is it paranoid, of a little jealous, or just that you want your man for yourself, and you don't want women getting to cozy with him. You mentioned very touchy. Being as he has a current girlfriend, they have no business getting "very touchy" with him, so it's little wonder you don't like it. By very touchy, I'm thinking you mean more than a short hug or a short kiss on the cheek, if they are very good friends for a long time.

[deric_97]

Because it's not special. The bond ain't even special between you both. That's why. You don't communicate enough, even though you might think you do. Why do I know? Because I feel like you don't understand him nor his preference. But if he's a player, then ditch him. If he's that loyal/good, then know him. Only then will you stop being paranoid. If he doesn't let you in his world, he should fuck off. That's it.

[LokiWhite]

Make your feelings known to your boyfriend, but trust him if you have no reason not to. Make it clear but be confident that your man is yours and no one can change that if the guy is worth keeping.

[riteshx]

U just need to relax. If he is busy than it does not mean he would date some one other than u coz u said bout the behaviour of the girls towards u so he may have choosen u instead of them this is first assumption. Second is that he must be dating. its very hard to see other girls been surrounded to that guy u love but keep In mind someday u will find ur type of Prince or boy who only loves u.

[Finchie40]

It means u were betrayed before so your trust for someone is going to be harder and it isn't a bad thing , nothing wrong with being a little protective because of what happened to u before , best thing to do is talk to your boyfriend and be upfront with your feelings and let him know how u feel , communication is key , I been in your shoes cuz I was cheated on before as well so if u ever want some good advice on how to handle your insecurity inbox me I will be glad to help you

[Eleventy]

Firstly, thanks for all the invites to answer questions.

You get paranoid because as you yourself said "I had bad experience with girls in the past", and "two of the guys cheated on me". You've been hurt by the men you were with and by other women. Things like that are difficult to move on from. They can be overcame however, it is possible for you to trust a man and trust other women in general again also. I don't know what you would have to do to make this happen though.

[ConnorH]

It's common female psychology to notice taken guys more than single ones because it shows they're desirable

[Peter2209]

May i know since how long you have been knowing your boyfriend and how close you both are... I'm asking bcz i can't say anything without knowing detail...

[userblame]

That's normal. You feel love at the same time towards him. Don't be too protective but don't let it go too far, find a grey zone

[Aqai94]

As I can see, you are the only one who is getting in progress with it, not the girls, thats why they are weird against you, that makes them upset. But, can I ask what kind of person is he?

[Clarke498]

I get it. He is yours and you don't want a woman to take him and want his focus on you... Same here. If a woman did that to me and i was in a relationship, it would make me uncomfortable.

[AlexEfron]

Jealousy 😂
It's okay to he a little possessive. Don't bother about it much. Have faith in your boyfriend. That's all that matters

[rain_maker112]

That's normal. People should know their boundaries, including your boyfriend, but dont be too harsh on him. He may be too kind to "push" a girl off

[Nathan79845]

Be paranoid. Hell, watch those bitches closely. If they're not nice to you, that means they like him.

[Dark_Angel4780]

Thanks for the invite to answer the question but I've never had jealousy in a relationship so I'm a bad person to ask

[mademistakes]

1 - You see the woman as a threat. 2 - They shouldn't be touching your partner , it's very disrespectful and make that clear 3 - If you didn't care about this guy you wouldn't have such strong feelings. Lastly- You have trust issues on the count of being cheated on in the past. That it doesn't just go away you have to work through it.
You might trust your man but you don't trust other woman around your man.
Sorry his "girl friends" aren't very nice to you. Might be time to play closer attention to their behavior around your man.
Something doesn't seem right about their treatment of you and why they're mistreating you?

When they do start standing up for yourself and your respect.
Or they will keep doing it.
Perhaps these woman like him more than just a friend.
Busy on weekends?

Be well. Hope it works out well this partner.

[csam14]

You are stretching yourself too much. Give it a rest and everything will work out fine

[IndyChris]

Sounds like he needs to tell them to back off. Makes me question him.

[LiteSkinGreenEyez]

Cause your normal, all girls do.. all girls hide their crazy lol

[Nice222]

You are rightfully jealous

[Aguysopinion4799]

Concerned about them taking him away from you -_-

[Ankitasingh466]

It's pretty normal...

[memeqweenn]

because you're insecure

[GreenGold1992]

Trust your boyfriend

[shep0612]

Ur insecure

[j_n3wman]

Calmly talk to him about it.

[theFantasticJ]

You're being jealous

[ThePundertaker]

It’s normal
Trust me

[OmgItsJoe123]

Because you care about him.

[ECBlanchard]

It is jealousy it's a good thing in this sence.

[AbbasO]

Just don't care

[Iamanintrovert]

It means you are a normal girl

[Razal]

Some people are possessive