Most Helpful Guy
your question doesn't make sense... why don't you just be yourself, which is way easier and healthier? i mean, trying to pose as somebody else (a perfect husband) is only going to stress you out to nerve wrecking point, and put the expectations of your wife even higher, to the point of constant fights at every turn because you're not your perfect self.
Most Helpful Girl
Treat her with respect
Love her and never take advantage of her