Online Dating: How much effort should go in the first message?

How witty and creative do you like your first message? Is there a point where you think the guy has overdone it? Tries too hard? Share some examples of you will.
  • The sky is the limit, send me a story with a major plot twist and we're cool!
    Vote A
  • If you overdo it, you seem creepy. Please don't. You looked so cute.
    Vote B
  • Just engage with my profile and ask me about stuff on there. I don't like guys that get too crazy.
    Vote C
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  • I personally wouldn't dance around like a colorful bird desperate to get a girl to notice me. I think simple, genuine messages are fine. If your personality is to be extravagant, than that's the way to go.

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  • Find something to say that will make her smile. If possible, something that is not copied and pasted. You should try and base it on something you saw in her profile or pictures.

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  • say just a few words like hi, how are you and you won't come accreoss as interesting but go the other way and waffle on and you will appear boring so just keep it concise but intersting

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  • I like crazy

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