How do I make the first move?
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Your nervous. Thats fine and perfectly normal for us highschool kids. Im going to assume you haven't done much dating before but you need try and be confident about this just like you were when you asked her out. It isn't as hard as its made out to be. You just need to think about how nice it would be to hold her hand also i would recommend using maybe cologne just make your self smell nice she will want to get closer to you if you do.
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If it helps, this girl is probably at home right now wondering "Why won't he even hold my hand? Did I do something wrong? Does he think I'm ugly? Do I smell? I'll bet he really doesn't like me at all..." It's natural to doubt yourself. Holding hands is a relatively innocent gesture, so it is socially safe to attempt. Even if things went sideways and she didn't want to, you aren't going to be condemned by society for wanting to hold a girl's hand. Go for it.
This is a little trick for insecurity that I learned. Before the date get ready try to look your best. But don’t spend too much time in the mirror. Pretend you look so hot and so great in your clothes. Think that the whole date. Now, this idea may sound cocky but it will boost your confidence. Pretend like you totally know what you are doing. You only live once. Make the most of every moment
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