Should I be upset that my ex misses me, but doesn't want to casually hook up?
What Girls & Guys Said01
Well to be honest, do you really think you could hook up with her with no strings attached after having been her boyfriend for many years? I think that in this situation, feelings would inevitable be involved at some point. I think you two pretty much still have feelings for each other, so the best thing to do in this situation is indeed to keep some distance in the physical part, because easily one night of intense sex could bring the feelings you two had to the surface again. I don´t know anyone who has attempted a hook up with an ex that didn´t develop or reactivated feelings for the other person afterwards, so i guess she is right in what she is doing. Now i think you should just respect her personal space till you are ready to move on again or break up definitely.
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