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Depends on the guy. I wouldn't have sex with someone I haven't been in a relationship with for a while and could see a future with. That mostly comes from the way I was raised not wanting that for my kids, but yeah. Giving it up on the first date is not a good idea. There is a loss of attraction in the "chase". It's dumb. I know, but making him work for it gives off a sense of confidence and self respect. Now that's irresistible! Also weeds out most of the guys that are only in it for the sex. Protect yourself.