Black women do you have trouble attracting white guys and guys do you think it's a myth that black women have a hard time dating?

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Black women do you have trouble attracting white guys and guys do you think it's a myth that black women have a hard time dating?

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I'm black and I don't have a problem attracting white men on the contrary I don't attract much black guys... I keep hearing black women have a tough time in the dating world and as a black woman I dont understand that. I'm an average looking black woman, nothing special just in shape and polite. Could it be weight issues in the black community? Or a certain behavior? I don't know.

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vannanas · Answer 1 · 2018-05-10T01:00:50Z

I would rather go for white women purely because I don't wanna date anyone I wouldn't foresee myself spending 15-20-50 years with... part of that is that I'll probably want kids someday, and ginger-black-(wo) man would probably look weird

BigRob420 · Answer 2 · 2018-05-10T00:56:32Z

Probably absence of black alpha female types in media. Particularly one's that strip like the white one's.

-Beonkia · Answer 3 · 2018-05-10T00:57:30Z

-Beonkia

I have a problem attracting any guy, regardless of their race. I have depression from that

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Damn, are you in shape 🤔

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vannanas

you have a cat?

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-Beonkia

@vannanas Had. He passed away in September.

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-Beonkia

Well yes and no. I exercise because of my job but I don't look overweight. I think most of my weight has to do with my boobs and they make me have pretty much the opposite shape of an hourglass

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vannanas

AAAAAAWWWWWW, I wanna cuddle with all the cats

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Asker

Have you tried online dating?

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vannanas

if tinder counts... but not looking for anything long-term

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Asker

@vannanas I meant the girl not you

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vannanas

@asker I didn't see your tag :'(((((((( actually I didn't see any of your replies...

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-Beonkia

Hahaha of course. All failed of course! I was close to going on my very first date, and the day before, he told me that we shouldn't talk anymore. I met another guy who lives in another town from me, but he stopped talking because he didn't find anything interesting about me, then he started dating a co-worker of mine, who happens to be a friend. Then the next thing I know, he comes by my workplace. Then I met someone else and we were trying to plan a date and he just stopped talking but continued to read my messages and also stopped by my workplace every now and then, well, his car would but he wouldn't. Soooo I gave up dating apps. I guess you could say that I have an "age limit" until I totally give up

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-Beonkia

@vannanas I'll get another car eventually to keep me happy

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-Beonkia

Cat* lol

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vannanas

Ihope that your future cat will bring you great joy :) and that it gets endless cuddles

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Asker

Damn I guess as a group we suck lol

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Asker

Has a guy ever went up to you and asked you out?

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-Beonkia

No. What guy would?

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vannanas

many guys do... mostly the confident ones tho

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Asker

Damn 😒 can you send me a picture of you? I will do the same about me.

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Asker

I will tell you what you can improve on to attract the man you want.

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-Beonkia

Not now because my eyes are a bit red from tears. I really should be used to it though. I don't know why I get so upset about it

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I don't mind the redness, I want to help you

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-Beonkia

I had recently read this one mytake of"reasons you're still single that the internet won't tell you" But surprise surprise, it comes from someone who's engaged

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Asker

Are you going to let me help you?

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Asker

Chrystelyn kerezyin on beyond black and white has some awesome tips for black women who are struggling... look her up on YouTube.

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-Beonkia

You can help but I'll be honest. I think what I'm feeling is one of those feelings that nobody else will understand. It could be lack of being complimented but who knows. Anyways, thanks

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Asker

Ok cool I will message you.

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Add me my username is shandandroll86

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