Yes, all the time. And yes, I thought about her a lot.
I like this guy at my work but he has a girlfriend, i didn’t know this at first, since the first time i saw him i couldn’t keep my eyes off him, and he returned the eye contact everytime, then i started to notice him staring at me when i wasn’t even looking at him, i was a 100% sure he liked me and wanted me because of the way he responded to my eye contact, and then i found out that he had a girlfriend...
It happens all the time to both sexes. A lot of the girls I've dated have had boyfriends when we first met. Meeting someone way better is bound to turn the person's head.
Yeah well one of my colleagues actually mentiond to him how much i like him and he just said ”i have a girlfriend and i don’t want to cheat” but still everytime we see eachother he locks eyes with me and stare at me
That's usually the first reaction, if they're decent people. No one wants to cheat on someone they care about. But if the other person is better and more attractive to them, eventually they'll make a change. It took one girl about 6 months before she finally broke up with her boyfriend and let me know she was available. Give it time.
I have given it time, it’s almost been a year, and i have even written him a message but he didn’t reply, but still everytime we see eachother the intense eye contact is there.
Do you think he even likes me tho?
He probably likes you, but if it's been a year, I don't think he's going to make a move.
But is there anything i can do? And not seem too desperate?
You have to forget about looking desperate. Girls are always so worried about this. Would you want to be with a guy if he wasn't at least a little bit desperate for you? It's called passion. So don't worry, just worry about what you feel and want. If you want him, tell him or let him know somehow.
But if i text him and tell him how i feel do you think he will respond to me?
Probably not, if he hasn't done anything within a year's time. But if you can't let it go, then you need to do something just to settle the matter within yourself.
But i don’t know what to do
It's tough. What's worked for me is just telling a girl that she should be with me. It takes balls, but it works if they want you back.
Have an opinion?
I have but I only thought of the other girl when I saw her at school
No, but she thought I did.
Why did she think that?
She knew I was attracted to black girls and I was frequently talking to one, so she assumed I liked her. I never stopped her from talking to a guy. She would always tell me how hot this guy is or how cute that guy is. I don't want to hear that shit, but I never told her she couldn't speak to guys.
Yeah and kinda
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