A month later we re-matched and the unmatching wasn't a problem and we started getting along (few messages traded over 3 days).
I asked her out for a coffee Saturday but not tonight because im tired after a uni exam
(I left the time in her court as i didn't know her schedule).
She replied positively and said she has errands but a morning date is good for her.
We quickly went through any deal breakers and she gave me her number.
I suggested a coffee at a small but open area thats nice and at the city centre station mall as its easy to find each other.
I suggested 11am-12pm, but she decided to change the time to an earlier one, she said she had places to be by then (RED FLAG.. but Idc as it was convenient for me to see her earlier and i only chose a later time for her benefit - getting ready).
Then she had an issue with the venue, she said "Thanks for asking if that is convenient for me, driving into the city is a pisstake to drive into, out of town works best for me" RED FLAG - changing venue and bad language (but it's true both of us live nearer outside of the city lol but I'm not a student and I can afford to buy coffee at nicer places).
I decided to change it to somewhere closer to us thats a nice cafe/restuarant Cafe Rouge.
She then said "no its fine I can tell we won't get on so won't waste either of our time, take care and best of luck"
She immediately blocked me off whatsapp and the dating app lol
Has she got revenge for me unmatching her previously or did she act on her shit tests?
(I have got a date with another girl now who i never thought id ask)
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Well i think that she acted on her shit tests and you have failed to pass them, so she decided that this wasn´t in fact going to work. Well since you perceived it wasn´t going to work by yourself even earlier than she did i don´t even know why you did attempt a contact with her again. Honestly if things didn´t work well in the first time you two got matched, why did you think it would work after 1 month? But to be honest there could be that she just used the line you used in the first time you unmatched her as a revange act, yes. But as you have moved on, just forget about this awkward moment.
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