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Unless you are into extremely rough sex, you need to get out of this relationship now. He doesn't have the decency to let you know how rough the sex will be, so in reality, it was more like abuse, possibly even rape, than sex. I don't see him being satisfied with any other kind of sex. Everything points to him getting even more abusive, and more controlling. Get out of this relationship now. But do it when someone is around, someone who can help you if he gets physically abusive. Also, get very good locks on your door, and if he starts harassing or following you, call the police, and get a restraining order. It things look like he could explode, you might want to live with a friend for a while.