Most Helpful Girl
The best way to a man;s heart is through food. And if you cook good food , he should be able to appreciate it. home cooked food is a symbol of love , so when you give him food , you offer him your love. If he does not understand this , then he acts somewhat wrong. Secondly , you should always live within your budget and leave some space for savings and investments too. So if he wants to depend on you for money , then it is not good. Ask him to find a job and then spend within his limits. That will keep you all happy. So if he generates income , there is no problem if he spends. love is a balancing job , so keep sensible balance in your relationship by acting sensibly.
Most Helpful Guy
Tell him the truth.
However, I have to wonder about this guy...
1. Doesn't he have his own money?
2. Is he THAT oblivious to your situation and need to save money?
I think you need to re-evaluate your relationship with this guy because it does not seem that he has his shit together nor a fiscal sense or much of a sense of empathy.