I tend to prefer white girls but I am usually too afraid to approach them because Im neither black nor multiracial. Advice please?

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I tend to prefer white girls but I am usually too afraid to approach them because Im neither black nor multiracial. Advice please?

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Im the most average white guy ever so overall plain and boring most would say. Besides it is well known that girls generally prefer spicy instead of vanilla and average white guys like me are considered the most vanilla thing ever.
Now I'd change my type but I tried and I simply can't.. that's what I like, that's what I find attractive. I have nothing against other women but I just simply prefer white girls.
Any advice? please. Thank you!

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Astoriana

Women don’t want to date you because all you ever do is talk about race.

It’s not because you’re white. It’s because you’re obsessed with race.

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AdmiralBailey

I'm pretty sure that white women love white men, my guy

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- Asker
  
  Well some do but most... Im not so sure since most of them are with men from other races.
  
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- AdmiralBailey
  
  That's statistically impossible.
  
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- Asker
  
  So you see the vast majority of them with white guys or?
  
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- AdmiralBailey
  
  It doesn't matter what you see in your neighborhood. It's statistically impossible for most white women to be with non white men.
  
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- AdmiralBailey
  
  There aren't many white people in my area at all
  
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- Asker
  
  Then do you think white girls usually prefer white guys?
  
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- AdmiralBailey
  
  I think that women prefer good looking men
  
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- Asker
  
  Okay then do you think most white girls are with white guys?
  
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- AdmiralBailey
  
  Yes, that's what I said. Black men of available dating status is 3% of the country. Latin men of dating age is 8% and other is about 1% . There would never be enough non white men to go around.
  
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- Asker
  
  Well hopefully even if there were... most white girls would still be with white guys. I dont mean to sound racist tho... only talking about dating.. nothing else
  
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- ScaryCool
  
  Don't feed him. I pretty much told him the same thing. Guys a very lonely individual somewhere in the world mad about something, he doesn't know why.
  
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- AdmiralBailey
  
  @ScaryCool This guy is cancer
  
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LRisen

I've only ever seen white girls date white guys except in some very very rare cases... what have you been reading for you to think this?

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leanhent

I'm white and only date white people.. maybe focus on more confidence. Your race doesn't make you boring

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- Asker
  
  Well I generally see white ladies with other races so that's why I might assume they are not really into white guys.
  
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- leanhent
  
  That is weird. I normally see most races with the same race in general. But no, that is not the case. White girls will like you if they like you as a person
  
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- Asker
  
  Where from? Im from US and in both Cali and NY I've seen white girls mostly with other races
  
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- leanhent
  
  You're reading way too much into it.
  
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- Asker
  
  Care to explain? So you think most white girls prefer white guys?
  
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Golden_Lights

Dude try not to focus too much on the race. That will most likely cause someone to lose interest in you. People do habe preferences but its not just about you being white

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- Asker
  
  That's true but when you see most of them with other races you start questioning if they do like white guys or not... and it's weird because it feels they don't. I mean... the vast majority of them don't at least. Some might do
  
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- Golden_Lights
  
  Woah. Not true at all my friend. Maybe where you are they do. Most people dont care about race really.
  
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- Asker
  
  Well what do you generally see white girls dating?
  
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- Golden_Lights
  
  Other white guys. It shouldn't matter regardless.
  
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_toxic

It's totally okay and don't worry, looks aren't that important

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ToniMüller

Woman want a man that's all. Do the things men do.

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HalloPeoplz

Try to lok pretty

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Anonymous

Asians are obsessed with whites.

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ScaryCool · Accepted Answer · 2018-05-13T21:03:53Z

ScaryCool

Quit watching the news and buying into trendy media, the world isn't as absorbed into the race as it tries to push.
Have more confidence in yourself. If you yourself don't like something about yourself (hair/body/acne etc) Work on it. But I'd suggest just working on confidence and just try being yourself finding someone naturally.

Asker

Well I generally see white ladies with other races so that's why I might assume they are not really into white guys.

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ScaryCool

That is your prejudice and insecurity mixing together to get the best of you. Statistically, there are more same race couples than there are of mixed. You may see some for sure, but that doesn't mean every white girl wants to be with another race.

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Asker

What do you generally see white girls with?

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ScaryCool

I see them with who they want to be with, but if I gotta care about races so much like you're doing than I see them with white people most times, some black people, some Spanish, some Asian. Just like I've seen white guys with black girls, Asian girls, Spanish girls etc. I saw you said you live in California. Maybe it's trendy there I don't know, but just relax and know it doesn't work that way everywhere.

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Asker

Do you think most white girls prefer white guys in general?

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ScaryCool

You know what I think? I think if you REALLY feel the way that you're showing to all of us right now, that THIS is why you aren't finding anyone. But honestly, I think you're baiting us. I don't know what for exactly, but I highly doubt you're this delusional.

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Good boy

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