I am confident besides this, and i know i’m not ugly. guys have liked me, asked me out, etc. but i always mess it up as soon as we’re ready to have sex and i don’t know what to tell him because i don’t want him to not want to talk to me anymore. which is pretty embarrassing to say…
guys, if you met a girl, started talking, went on dates and you really liked her but when y’all were about to have sex she told you she doesn’t feel comfortable talking her bra off is that a deal breaker?
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Nope. Sex is an area where allowances must be made. I've known women who wouldn't take off their shirt during sex (not because I had sex with them) because they felt uncomfortable about their body and thought their stomach wasn't flat enough or what have you. As is the case most of the time in those situations, most men do not care.
To clarify, I'm not saying the women wouldn't take off their shirts in general, not just when having sex with me, I'm saying my knowledge of this had nothing to do with me being intimate with them. The way I put it before, it sounded as though I was suggesting women might leave their shirts on because they were having sex with me and that that wasn't the case and women felt uncomfortable about their bodies whilst having sex with me.
But, anyways, if your partner or date is not OK with that, they don't have to have sex. If you asked a guy "would you rather not have sex or have sex with a woman who was wearing a bra" I think about 99.99% of them would say woman wearing a bra (the remaining.0001% being trolls and purposely lying.) Unless he's so visual and boob focused that he'd rather pleasure himself to pictures of naked women online then have sex with an attractive woman in person... in which case, there's something wrong with this guy.