i really want to date people but right now I'm not feeling a relationship AT ALL. now let me explain myself, by dating, I don't mean friends with benefits, I mean like having somebody take me out, enjoying each other being together but not having to get like super dooper attached and really serious cause I have too much going on for that. is that an unrealistic expectation?
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NO, it's not unrealistic! It's what all women should be doing before they make a serious commitment! You should use every opportunity to go on casual dates. By doing this, you're learning what you want and don't want, you're gaining confidence, and you're having fun. There's nothing wrong with that! Just be upfront with the guys. Tell them, "It feels good being with you and getting you know you. I'm enjoying being casual and will let you know if I decide that I want more." if a man ever questions you or challenges you, just say "I'm focusing on myself right now and don't feel that I would be able to give 100% to a relationship at this point. If that's too difficult for you, then I would feel better just being friends." Good luck and keep it up!1