Girls, Why do so many women seem repulsed by ginger men?

I've just hit 27 and I've never had a girlfriend in my life. I always seem to repulse most women. I never get looked at. I'm never approached. Every time I approach I just get shut down straight away. I've done my masters degree , have a good job keep healthy and fit, love animals , friendly and down to earth wouldn't hurt a fly.

Have a interest in animals , history, international studies.

I've been on dating websites and all that comes up is read deleted.
Yet most women all seem attracted to dark hair and dark eyes

Girls, Why do so many women seem repulsed by ginger men?

Girls, Why do so many women seem repulsed by ginger men?
Girls, Why do so many women seem repulsed by ginger men?

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  • I don't know what you're doing wrong, because I cannot see any problems with your looks.
    But you do look really young.
    Don't worry, you will find someone. I really don't think your hair is the reason.
    Maybe you just find the wrong girls.

    Ask your friends about how you are as a person and how you approach people, that can have a huge impact.

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    • Thank you , I'm naturally very shy and have a little social anxiety but because I grew up in a loud family i can portray myself as such. Like the first thing that comes into my head when I see someone I'm attracted to is , she will only date someone a million times better then me

    • Maybe you need to work on your confidence, and stop thinking like a victim.
      Confidence is so important when it comes to women. Although, DON'T BE A DICK ABOUT IT.

      Just from what I can read, you sound a bit insecure, and if the woman can see that or if you're desperate, that will have an effect.
      But I don't know you, so I could be wrong.

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  • Well, I'm a ginger, and I'm not sure if it's a double standard but I've never had an issue.

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    • I know a lot of guys who like red head girls , yet never seen the opposite , have a few female friends say oooo you're good looking , nice etc. Just feel like that's generic bs

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    • Maybe date younger girls in their early 20s?

    • @MeganForreal was thinking that , but also blonde and blue eyes is not what I would say exclusively I like all girls with all different backgrounds hence my comments above

  • I don't think it's about someone being ginger maybe it's about facial appearance as well to some women. by the way, are you mixed?

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    • I'm Scottish , Swedish and Jewish ( I'm Christian , grandma was a polish Jew and had to escape from nazi germany ) background but I really don't say that. I was born in Australia therefore I Say I'm Aussie 😊

  • Ed Sheehan does ok

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    • I wish I could sing like him , then I wouldn't have to work 9-5 😭😭😂😂

  • I like ginger guys. Literally never heard anyone specifically dislike them. Maybe you're a jerk?

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    • Read the description

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    • I have no idea what to tell you then. That is lame for you

    • Hmmm don't know what I'm doing wrong , on here I can moan like a little child but in real life I do not act as such. ... hmmm 🤔🤔

  • Honestly, you look like a kid as opposed to a 27yr old man.. which poses a real problem in online dating. Online dating is almost 100% judged on looks because u can't see someones personality over the phone. Therefore, i would recommend not doing selfies
    Let someone snap tons of pics of u with dif facial expressions both inside and outside and find some that make u look better. Because u do look like your lips and nose have been done.. and i know for a fact there are women who date red headed boys. I know several red headed boys that didn't get a lot of gfs in school but they now have pretty wifes

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    • 2nd thing i will say. Are u reaching out to girls 2 far out of ur league ,, thatps maybe why ur getting rejected.. if u dont think much of urself then how can u expect a beautiful women to see u any other way

  • You look so cute and very young I don't think your look would put girls off you just seem very nice girls your age don't appreciate a nice guy

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  • Maybe epand your prefrences? Sometimes people dont find what theyre looking for because they want a certain "type"- do you have a type?

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  • I adore redheaded men! Perhaps you are persuing immature & superficial women?

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  • They aren't it might be your personality

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    • Love animals , love kids , masters in business law, keep fit and healthy , love history , love international studies , travel , love going out on sat nights. Most of all I'm kind and down to earth I'm always the first to help out others , approach women in a respectful manner.

    • See now thats your perspective of yourself

      But word of advice try a dating app and tint your eyebrows

  • I'm gonna be brutally honest here... you look like a trans gender. Trust me it's not the hair color..
    I don't know if it's the no brows or fem lips.

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