Is it ok to be weirded out about taking a friendship to a relationship?
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Of course it's okay. It's even natural.
It kind of sounds like you've seen this guy as a brother, or a semi-brother, for a long time. Years. And now the idea of kissing him seems kind of like incest to you.
The question, I guess, is whether you can get over that. If you can stop seeing him as a brother, and start seeing him as a romantic/sexual partner.
But either way, whatever your feelings are, they're okay.
Hope this helps.
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Yeah, it is weird. I guess it is also a scary risk, as it is hard to just go back to the way it was if things didn't work.
But, only those that takes risks reap the rewards. So give it a chance.
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