Most Helpful Girl
Ok... What gets me is you said "... and I assume he's not a virgin..." clearly y'all don't know each other well enough so the comfort level between you both is not there? Sex can be a taboo topic for some, but can also make a relationship so much more when you openly invite to discuss the topic at hand and can laugh about it, talk about it, be serious or joke about it... Experiment with each other openly. That's what your real issue is. And if you are unwilling to ask or open up about sex then maybe you should reassess if going that next step is really needed. I mean what about the real issues after sex, cause yunno that's gonna have to be discussed too!