Do guys think that there is something wrong with a woman who is always single?
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I'd still give her a chance, but I'd definitely have my guard up for awhile. If certain behaviors started to shine through that hinted as to why she hasn't had any long-term relationships I might take more notice to them. Truth be told, the child would be more of a red flag to me, but that's also coming from a guy in his mid-late twenties who doesn't have any children.
Personally I would say that she gains some big respect points for just raising the child without succumbing to social pressure, women over 30 who have kids seem to get it rough. Everybody is different, age shouldn't be a marker for you finding that special someone.
30+ with a child and no long-term relationships... Yes. Mostly the child part. At 30+ I would probably be suspicious of a girl that says she hasn't been in a relationship but that alone isn't a deal breaker. The kid is a deal breaker for me though especially if no previous long term relationship.
Normally I'd think nothing of it, but if she's 30+, I would be careful. Ofcourse it could just mean she hasn't found the right man to settle down with, yet. But often it means she's too independant. Being independant is usually good thing, but sometimes it can mean she doesn't want to be part of the couple as much as other women, or, as you do..
Well, the signs are there. It has to start from her if only she's ready to give it a go. I will try to make her ready to give it a shot. But her respect remains intact.
That's a HUGE red flag.
She never committed to a relationship or noone ever wanted to stick around. There must be a reason.
Either she's too much self centered or annoying af.
If she's never had long relationships (of say... 2+ years), it is a red flag.
Even more, considering that she would choose to keep the pregnancy going at some point (single motherhood by choice leads to problems for the kids and society).
If you only took the child out of the picture, it wouldn't really matter to me that she never had long relationships. The flings... well it depends how many because according to research, the more flings a woman has, and the more dissatisfied she will prove to be in her future life. So if you had 5... it's not the same as if you had 50.
Really, the biggest red flag is the kid. And let's be honest, the kid was not due to contraception malfunction, but was due to choice of keeping the pregnancy (considering that abortion and progestative are easily accessible in most developed countries)
If the pussy is good then roll with it. Just don't try to hang on to her, and if she goes, count it as a good time and move on.
It depends on how much one likes the woman but I certainly wouldn't lose respect for her because of the scenario you describe
The child would personally be the kicker for me since I don't wanna embezzle myself in the bonding process of a strange child
A forever single person is usually a weird or picky individual.
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