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Two obvious possibilities:
- He's a habitual cheater who loves the thrill + non monogamy and never stopped cheating, or only briefly. This is perhaps the most likely. There are less men like this, but since they cheat constantly, you will run into them a lot as a woman (much like not many people are telemarketers, but a large percent of phone calls I get are from telemarketers, because they phone people all day).
- his marriage is poor or dead from a relationship standpoint, but they have kids and aren't going to split. this is a more common scenario, but these guys tend to cheat less frequently.
There's of course an outside possibility that he's in an open relationship, or perhaps you struck him as the most enchanting woman to walk the earth and he's motivated to cheat for the first time ever.