This girl and I connected extremely well last Fall. We'd talk all the time and she really liked me. We both described this feeling as "real", unlike anything else.
But she had a boyfriend, so we never did anything or really dated.
Eventually, I had to stop talking to her because she was in a long term relationship.
A few months pass and they broke up. I still did not speak to her, but a month after the break up I decided to tell her happy birthday on her birthday.
She started to talk to me again and we really connected again.
I asked her out, she said yes, but we were too busy with school to really go on a date.
As we waited for a good time to go, she decided that she needs to be single for a while to focus on school, her friends, and job.
I said this made sense, she was busy and just got done dating someone else for almost 2 years.
We still talk and if I ever bring this up she will say she still cares about me, but isn't ready to date and isn't going to expect me to wait.
If I ask to hang out, she prioritizes hanging out with friends first, so I rarely see her. But she insists hanging out with me when she can.
I don't want to cut contact with her, I've had feelings for her unlike anyone I've ever met and we have so much in common that we are very similar. She knows this too, but still says she needs time.
Does it seem like she lost all feelings? If I ask her she says she hasn't but her actions do not match with her words... She will display care now and then, but then she goes quiet. :/
What would you do? Odds are, I'm not meeting someone like her anytime soon.
Most Helpful Guy
Reading your description l think she probably doesn’t want to get with you. Actions speak louder than words she is trying to live her life l suggest you do the same. Just cut off the communication and focus on your goals man. Don’t waste time trying to chase women or wait for them. Emotions are emotions you may think that she’s perfect for you but this probably not the case. When you focus on living your life and yourself your real perfect match will come along and she won’t put barriers up.
Most Helpful Girl
Just focus on you for now and think about her later when she's ready.