So we've been dating for almost 2 years now and had a pretty rough relationship. I was always clingy and his friends hate me. So anyway, recently I've decided to stop being clingy and all but he keeps being mean to me, and when I say mean, I mean annoyed with the slightest things and I have to think a few times before I say anything to him. I love him and lot, like A LOT, but it's making me really unhappy. He never gets me flowers and when I show signs of unhappiness he says he's just not a family oriented guy or the romantic type. It's bothering me a lot because I'm deeply in love with him but I don't like how I have to watch myself when interacting with him. He's egoistic, stubborn and not to mention how FUCKING mean he is to me. What do I do?
What do I do about a boyfriend who gets easily annoyed?
What Guys Said 4
You have two choices.
Leave him, or warn him you're going to.
One day, sit down with him and tell him if he doesn't have a straight conversation with you then you're leaving him. If he doesn't oblige or even try then he doesn't care. Leave him.
If he does try, then explain how you feel and what you've experienced. He will likely get angry but as long as he doesn't let it out on you it's fine.
Give it a few weeks and if you see improvement then stay with him (so long as those improvements remain).
Otherwise, why stay with him?2
Leave him, you can cling to me, not only will I welcome it I'll cling back. He's a dick you deserve someone that will appreciate you.0
What Girls Said 3
There must be a problem with your boyfriend if he finds fault in everything you do. Unless it just feels that way to you. Seriously, sit down, alone, where it's quiet and think about it. If this is truly the case then my feeling is that your boyfriend's problem is himself. He has a very poor self image of himself, and by getting mad at you, he makes himself feel better. There are a few solutions:
1. Continue as is and that hope that it will improve (which it won't).
2. See if you can talk it out and go to counseling if he's open to it.
3. If you can’t work it out and he continues his behavior, I would break off the relationship. No one has the right to be treated like this. Find a healthy person to have a relationship with and move forward.0
Walk away and don’t look back0
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