Most Helpful Guy
Aside from the lawful side, what difference does it make how old he was anyway. He obviously was mature enough and made you feel things thay anyone of any age can do so I personally dont see the problem with it.
Most Helpful Girl
Times flies fast, he'll quickly be 20 and you 23. But you know if age gap bothers you so much, it won't change when he's older. If you had great chemistry and you have feelings for him, it only means that he is mature enough for you and that's the important. And three years is really nothing. But I understand that it makes you feel unwell. For one thing she shouldn't have lied about his age.
When I was 15 I started talking to guy who was five years older, we understood each other perfectly and talked comfortably about anythinh, and had a great friendship. He was more experienced for sure, so I only learned from him lots. We're still friends up till now.