Most Helpful Girl
It's always a combination. There's no point in dating a guy with a goodlooking face and body but no humor whatsoever. There's no point in dating a rich guy without any good manners (rude). There's a lot of possibilities, you can't just choose one characteristic to look for a guy
Most Helpful Guy
social skills. you gotta be able to read and play on their emotions. if you can do that, they will love you. everything else you listed is kind of important but only secondary to social skills.