Do you think it’s okay for an 18 year old and 28 year old to be together?

I love him and neither of us see it as a big deal but I’d like to know what other people think..

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Yes its okay just understand you are young and still have a lot to learn maybe he will teach you, but remember your young.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • If there's love and respect in the relationship, from both sides, you don't need to worry about what other people think.

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What Guys Said 23



  • He's been am adult 10 years compared with your one
    Thats really a huge difference.

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  • Its all about your mindset.. others won't be there for your whole life.. if you get a right person please be with that person who can take care of you always

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  • To be honest this type of relationship has a potential to be easier but also hard to maintain given the difference between experience. As a rule of thumb always use a formula when dating a girl who's older than me, which is most of the time. So here the Formula:
    The age you use for this formula should always be the older person in the relationship.
    Example: (28 / 2) + 7 = 21
    In this case you're three years younger than what people are generally okay with. In fact if you were 21 you wouldn't ask the question in the first place.

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  • It's a pretty big age gap but they're both adults so it's all good.

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  • That's borderline for me. It can be if both people can be on the same page on many things.

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  • Yes. Barely Legal and Teen are my favorite porn channels.

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  • l date younger girls so what nothing to do with any one

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  • If they are both consenting then there should be no problem.

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  • If you both feel comfortable, go on.

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  • Yes i don't see it being a big deal.

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  • Just be perpared for some chris hansen jokes.

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  • As long as they are both consenting adults.

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  • You are both consenting adults so no problem

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  • Only if you truly love him.

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  • Yes it is, and I do not care who you date

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  • Sure not a problem

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  • Not okay

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  • Yes it’s hot lol

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  • As long as its 18 or older age is just a number

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  • It's okay

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  • Yes... why not?

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  • Nearly normal for an ONS. Not so for a relationship.

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  • keep him mind, that, when he was your age, you were 8. That's a pedophile, by, like, A LOT.. predator like

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    • 1d

      I don't think they were dating when she was 8. How is that relevant?

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      keep in mind*

      also, just think about it, when he was your age, you were 8. that's a pedophile, by, like, a lot

What Girls Said 12

  • Whenever I hear of a large maturity gap in relationships (which there definitely is one in your case, even if you’re mature for your age), I always wonder what the older partner wants out of the relationship. This always leads me to think there’s some sort of ulterior motive 😔

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  • Legally there’s nothing wrong with that. But what are his intentions? Seems a bit fishy for a grow ass man to be dating someone who probably just graduated from high school. Be careful.

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  • I was in a relationship with a 30 year old guy as I was 19. Therefore it would be pretty hypocrite from me to critisize you. In the end, we broke up because he wanted a family and I wasn't ready for that yet.

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  • This is Not a Bad Age Difference and Maybe the Young One can Learn from the Older One, hun. xx

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  • As long as you're both happy I don't think it's intrinsically wrong. However you two are in very different places in life with very different mid-term goals and that might be a barrier you need to watch out for

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  • You're both legally adults and old enough to make your own decisions. If you both feel that way, I see no problem.

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  • I think 18 years old is too young for a 28 years old.
    I know guy that young who have go out with girl older and it always end up very badly.

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  • It’s a little weird just because your still a minor in my opinion and he’s almost 30 but to each their own
    He robbin the cradle

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  • Been there, done that. You're legal so..

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  • Yes it's totally ok.

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  • 28 year old guy and 18 year old girl sure. Other way around I dont think so.

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  • y'all are at very two different points in life. he's probably getting ready to settle where you're life journey has just begun.

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