So I'm on an online dating site and I've sent some girls messages and gotten no responses. I personally think it's because I come off as boring but most girls' profiles are so generic that I have nothing to use to start up a good conversation.
I know girls hate just a plain "Hi" or "What's up" but I don't really have a better idea. I don't have any problem getting into an interesting conversation on this site because it usually starts with me answering a girl's question. But when I've got nothing to go on I can't seem to get one going.
So if a guy was going to message you, what would he say to get your attention and interest?
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Have you ever noticed that online dating sites very often don't bring constructive replies from girls?
Ever noticed that these same sites often lead to men's ads being responded to by women but that most of the replies never lead anywhere?
Ever asked why?
Most online dating sites employ folk to respond especially to men in order to keep up interest and (yes you've guessed it!) keep the money rolling in from hopeful guys.
Some of the biggest are some of the worst.
Waste of time and money fella responding to empty profiles - they are mostly either empty people that have nothing to say about themselves or are not seriously looking or they are dummy profiles set up to 'hook' guys like you.
There are a few that seem better than most and they often are completely free and don't let you join and then charge you before you can reply or respond to emails etc. But even then there are much better options than the regular online dating sites0