Is there such a thing as soul mates? Does God have one specific person for you to marry?

Is there such a thing as soul mates? Does God have one specific person for you to marry?Grab a drink.. this should be a good one!
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  • As a qualified psychic and relationship expert who has worked full time helping people with romantic situations, yes we have soul mates but not necessarily just one and it is not necessarily true that the one is going to be plain sailing and nothing but happiness. Your soul mate may have made the mistake of marrying someone and having children before they meet you. Or they may have mental health issues where they are so needy and clingy and insecure no relationship ever works out for them. http://www.webclairvoyant.com

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  • I do not believe there are soul mates, but I do believe that God has specific people (s) for us to become involved with and/or marry. We do not have a perfect pair that will make us happy. If you think that's God's responsibility you will only be disappointed. God is outside of time, so from his perspective, there is no past present or future. 50 years ago is just as much a present reality as Friday the 18th, 2018. So it's most certainly complicated.

    When we E term a new relationship, whether it's fantastic or horrid doesn't change the fact that it was always going to happen, because the world was working the way it did and everyone within made the decisions that they made.

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What Girls Said 22

  • I think there are soulmates, but not in the sense of one single person, not necessarily even in a romantic sense. For me a soulmate means someone who is on the exact same page with you. There can be multiple of them and it doesn't mean you need to have any romantic feelings for them. It can also be a friend.

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  • I believe in soul mates but I do believe we have more than one, I don’t think we have one specific person or it would be unlikely we would find anyone

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  • No. I don’t believe in soul mates. No one was made for anyone in particular. If they were then so many people wouldn’t be single.

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  • Yes! To get there you have to do lots of daring and sharying tears bc of loss crushes but i shape and twist and moled of who i want for my future partner!! So far i am building him... dont know eho thatll be but somebody... may be no body. 😉

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  • It's complicated. There are soul mates however they may not always be romantic in nature, and the may not actually be someone who should always be in your life. Some soul mates are there just to teach you a lesson that will get you ready for the person you will be with for life.

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  • Yes, but unfortunately people don't know how to communicate within their relationships anymore. There is someone God has perfectly made for someone but we usually choose what we want even if its not that great for us.

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  • I love the picture 😍

    But overall, no, I don’t think people have “soul mates” per se, but I do think there are certain personalities that just compliment other personalities better than most, giving the illusion of soul mates

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  • I thought I met my soul mate, 20 years later he stopped loving me and started hurting me. Now I’m 40 and single. So I don’t believe in soul mates anymore.

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  • If soulmates exist I think I found mine. I don't know if I truly believe it, but it's a nice idea that can give people hope to find love.

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  • I don't think so.
    You just get better a long with some people.
    But I don't believe in god or soulmates.

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  • I think every person does have that one person for them but finding them is rare either because the timing never seems to be right or they arnt open to finding that person and choose to be with someone else but everyones beliefs are different

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    • What would you think about the percentage of people who divorce actually find their soulmate the second time around because they know who they are and what they are now actually looking for? The success rate is crazy?

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    • So you agree the second time around is more successful?

    • Let me put it this way the first time turns out like a 50 50 ratio the second can be 100 of 100 in some cases but more often in is about a 70 of 100 , so yes the second marriage tends to be more successful especially when both parties have been married prior however its not always a fact that a second marriage will be more successful than the first

  • I think there are. But not everyone is gifted with one. I don't think there is someone for everyone. I think there is someone for just a handful of people.

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  • If that's the case, then there wouldn't be a bunch of 20-29 year olds on here asking about why they're still single

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  • Yes I think so :)

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  • Yes I heard that a lot but it’s not quartered to be together. My friends found them but they didn’t make it. They broke up

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  • well i dont want to get married anyways

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  • Yes, I believe God has a certain person for me.

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  • Nope.

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  • Yes there is... 😀😀😀😀

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  • No. Girls are really deluded.. and probably don’t understand men well enough.

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  • Yes I believe in that.

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  • Not a chance.

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What Guys Said 36

  • You make the one, you do not get the one. Just like taking a stone from the quarry and you carve it into a sculpture with patience, time and effort.

    Real love is in the hand of God and He only put loves between a couple and that happen only in marriage and if both parties are fulfiling their duties.

    God does not recognise boyfriend and girlfriend and living relationship so you will never find your soulmate.

    Secondly it is not because you are married, that person is ur soulmate. No never. U turn that spouse into ur soul mate with what you have to give and offer, but what will you offer when you have nothing to offer. You have lost everything to lust and desire.

    Imagine it takes 50L of fuel to reach a destination, but you have only 10L, will you reach your destination when there is no chance of refil. The answer is clear.

    Love and time are two things that can be spent without replacement and its replenishment is in the hand of God.

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  • That's not what soulmate means. It's soul mate not sole mate.

    Yes, soul mates are very real. No, there is not one person just for you. You can have more than one soulmate, even at the same time.

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    • Same time? What? please explain?

    • I mean you can more than one soulmate at the same time. It's to the point of it not being just one person. A soulmate doesn't even have to be a romantic relationship. It can be a good buddy, a family member, or anyone else.

  • "Does God have 1 specific person for you to marry?"

    Quit believing in fairy tales. If you actually believe in god (<--lower case intentional), you sure as shit should not be having sex (that's kinda fucked up... you won't know if your sexually compatible until your wedding night)! OH, THAT'S RIGHT... believers can commit any sin they want, then go to confession and be forgiven.

    There are so many different kinds of people out there. There are nymphomaniacs that only want to fuck and need 1 or 2 new partners a week/day and don't care about love/relationships. There are casual sex people. There are serial monogamists that are only with one person at a time, but change often (months to a year or 2). There are people that can have healthy loving caring long-term relationships, but they are open... so they get to enjoy some casual/serious play time outside of their main relationship. I am willing to bet there are very few soul mates: truly monogamous relationships: happily ever after (provided they live a long full life) with the one & only person they have been with.

    I watched this TLC/Discovery doc on human sexuality once. In the opening minute or 2, the narrator threw out an interesting fact: only 2%-3% of all species on the planet are monogamous (I'm guessing only-one-in-your-lifetime monogamous; not one-at-a-time monogamous). To me, that was the producers way of saying "{nudge nudge wink wink} HEY STOOPID HUMANS! YOU'RE TRYING TO BE MONOGAMOUS WHEN YOU'RE NOT MEANT TO BE!".

    in my opinion, happily ever after, til death do us part, FAITHFULLY is a creation of religion. Religion brainwashes us into thinking sex is dirty (outside of wedlock)... makes you think there is something wrong with you & hate yourself if you have sexual thoughts. There is a small number of neurotic religiously brainwashed wives 2 years into their marriage with their hymens intact, scared shitless to have sex. I heard this story on the radio/podcast: this young (I'm guessing very young) married couple were trying to get pregnant for several months/year. She went to the fertility dr/ob/gyno to find out what is going on. It was determined her hymen was intact. They were having sex, but her hymen was intact. Turns out, he was penetrating her urethra, not her vagina. Horribly sexually uneducated. This was here in the states. I blame the influence religion has on our society...

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    • That was brilliantly said. A+ for that. Especially about the god shite.

    • 50% divorce rate. I'm guessing a significant amount of unfaithfulness. We are not meant to be with one person for the rest of our lives... I don't even think we are meant to be with one person at a time. Love always fades. The longer a relationship goes, the more difficult it becomes... eyes start to wander... it becomes harder to remain faithful. I'm pretty sure the phrase "7-year itch" existed before the movie. Even if you remain faithful, but look at other people, develop crushes on other people, think of someone else during sex, whack it to porn... you are not monogamous. Those are things we do to try to trick ourselves into being monogamous. Just like vegans/vegetarians who eat faux meat made with tofu, they are not actually vegan/vegetarian... they are trying to trick themselves into being that way.

    • Having several offspring with several different partners is better for the human race. The DNA is distributed faster. We evolve faster. We become bigger better faster stronger. We develop immunities to existing diseases/viruses/bacteria... etc.

  • You have 18 fucking thousand followers in gag. Holy shit.

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  • I don't know, I hope so, I just hope it happens too, you know?

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    • Well I guess that depends. Do you believe there is only one soul mate for you or many?

    • I guess 1, cause its "soul" meaning there is 1. But... I don't know.

  • People who are capable of being in a happy relationship with one person could be in a happy relationship with many others.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gaid72fqzNE

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  • I'm surprised with how many people said yes!! Of course soul mates don't exist! If you're girlfriend was cloned, would u not be soul mates with the clone? Or how about someone who looked/acted exactly like her from a different city?

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  • Soulmates no not in a supernatural sense that there is one predestined for you one where being together will just be perfect or any such thing
    There can be people who are willing to fully engage in a deep relationship and who complement each other near perfectly but it is not by divine will or cosmic machinations that such person's exist
    There are just people who match very well and if they are lucky they run into each other

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  • First Off, Nice Pic! Very cute! Two:
    I wonder about that... I think it MIGHT be a reason why I haven't had a girlfriend yet... Maybe there'll be someone VERY SPECIAL just for me!

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  • Nope, they don't. There may be am image in your head of what you want. But that comes with experience, after few dates and broke ups, you'll slowly shape the image. And go after it. That is all.

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  • No, you have any number of compatible matches. Some of them high compatibility. Finding any one of these matches is a miracle in itself.

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  • I don't believe in soul mates. I believe that there are thousands of compatible people in the world just waiting to meet you.

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  • I say their is a soul mate out there for everyone but i don't think it's Gods work but more like fate

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  • That right there. Very interesting.

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  • There's too many different people in the world for there to be only one. But since the world is a big place, the only issue is finding one of those people

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  • I believe it. As long as you know what you're looking for, and you find hard enough.

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  • Yes I believe God does have a specific person for you to marry..

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  • If this were the case, it would mean that the use of drugs in heaven is legal.

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  • Sure. God blessed us with sex. He said it is not good for man to be alone. I think there is someone for everyone. Just got to find them.

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  • God doesn't have one specific person for anyone.

    The person has to choice to chose someone and also has the choice to marry someone or not.

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  • Option 5: Why the fuck do u use a picture with Sauron and his ring?

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  • No. Nothing suggests it. I mean how do you even test it?

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  • Feeings change over time. To think that one person can fill your love cup forever is naive.

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  • I believe there is, wether it's God (s) doing or not, I don't know.

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  • NO. And speaking of God, Paul himself said "it is good to remaim unmarried as I am..."

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  • doesn't exist. it's a fairytale.

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  • It's just mammal chemistry to copulate.

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  • Not exactly like that but pretty close.

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  • No such thing as soul mates.

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  • God doesn't exist

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