Even if I thought the other person was not going to reply to me I’d still never put that, what do you think?
Most Helpful Guy
Depending on the site in question there are a ton of fake profiles. These profiles give an app/site greater numbers on launch and attract more guys to use the service with the trick that it looks like they will have a greater chance because there are more girls. A lot if these fakes are getting harder and harder to pick out, you can imagine that after weeks or months of writing polite hopeful messages and getting nothing back a guy can get pretty bleak. I would ignore the confidence issue on the first message but keep an eye out for more signs if you do talk to him a
Bit. (When I was using sites, I ended up giving up and would not even send first messages, only respond to interested girls that didn't seem like advertising bots)
Most Helpful Girl
No. People shouldn't say that. I don't use dating sites, but if did , that would be a turn off. I'd be offended that they automatically assumed I'd ignore them when they don't even know me. Their assumption would be baseless. I'd assume they had low self-esteem and trust issues. I can't build a rapport with people who automatically think the worst of me , because of their own insecurities. It's a major turn off. It's a sign of things to come.