Most Helpful Girl
I’m not sure what to tell you because
1) you shouldn’t have to change your personality. If you both don’t click then it’s better not to be together.
2) if your jokes are hurtful then you may have to learn how to be more considerate and not make jokes at other people’s expense.
Most Helpful Guy
Well I would say changing your entire personality is taking it too far. Do try to realize what specific issues and topics really upset him though and avoid joking about it. We all have our hot button issues, really I think it's better to focus on positives than negatives. Cheers.