Most Helpful Girl
Because in the long run things like having sex on the first date don’t matter. And that doesn’t entitle you to being first picked by a man. What’s more important is your attitude, your aspirations, how well you both get on, how attracted he is to you. A girl he had sexual encounters with could have everything he wants + good in bed. Why wouldn’t he want to pick her?
Dating sucks. And everyone takes losses. You’ll find someone who is just right for you eventually. Why spend time worrying about it. The more you put pressure on it the less likely it will be to happen...
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Most Helpful Guy
If they go out with you, but then say they are not looking for a relationship when you tell them you won't have sex with them on that first date, then maybe you should go out with older men.
If you come across as stingy with sex, then why would a guy waste his time with you? The reason a guy has a relationship with a girl to have easy sex.