What are the little things you do to make your SO feel special and happy?

Is there something, that you know it makes your SO happy, so you like to do it for them? What is it? 😊
What are the little things you do to make your SO feel special and happy?


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  • Can't do much from 5k km far still I try to do whatever makes you happy smiling and calm because only thing matters for is your happiness 😊 and the rest you already know 😚

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  • Take on dates and random kisses. Cooking for eachother and trips to new places. Most relationships flourish when you do fun things together that you both enjoy and learn from. Learn about eachother in profound ways and apply those new discoveries and apply them in meaningfull ways.

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  • just be there emotionally if they ever needs it, let them have their alone time once in a while to re-charge and just try to cheer them up when they are down. People mostly need emotional support in a relationships :)

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  • My boyfriend always sends me a good morning message and i love it. He is always awake first for work. Things i do for him, i'm not really sure. I alqays just support him however i can and i always ask what he wants for dinner when he visits. I'm always aski g about his day but he has nothing that he really loves except when i wear my lingerie for him πŸ˜‚

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What Guys Said 73

  • Last night, when she finished the day at her job, I was waiting by her car. I took her to her favorite restaurant. I also purchased a few appetizers to go for her to enjoy at lunch today. Afterwards, we stopped at a new grocery store she has wanted to visit. Then I drove her back to her car and told her that I was really looking forward to seeing her this weekend.

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  • Sneak outta work early and get home two hours before her and start the sauce. Take my shower get the spaghetti ready, light candles and open a bottle of wine. Fix her bath, light the bathroom candles and greet her at the door... 100% effective..

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  • It really would depend on the SO interests to say exactly but if there was an interest of theirs that I myself wasn't super into id stoll do my best to enjoy myself doing it with them from time to time to show I care and maybe eventually I'd understand why they like it.

    I know what it's like to want your SO to enjoy something you enjoy so giving things a chance doesn't hurt.

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  • Have a candle lite dinner ready with rose peddles all around and a rose peddle trail leading to a warm bubble bath surrounded by candles for her to unwind to. Then a full body massage by yours truly to show her I will be the one to personally make sure she is takin care of. With nothing but compliments and little kisses here and there. :)

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  • Giving food to needy... give water to someone thirsty.. telling stranger the path... help blind men to cross road... help any stranger.. compliment any stranger on his good doing... help someone in trouble when no one is there to help... when an asker select ur opinion most useful... when help one who not know u...

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  • On random occasions i like to cook a nice dinner and watch a movie of her choice afterwards. I also like to make things for her, a teabox here... A ring there... But honestly the second part is more for me than her. I am highly passionate towards fine craftsmanship and have the skills to make whatever i want out of wood/soft metals (such as gold, silver, etc)

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  • A kiss on the forehead or cheek. A hug from behind. A mini gift. A surprise message or a spontaneous trip to somewhere

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    • A hug from behind is non consensual. If a guy does that it's sexual harassment.

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    • @Armourdillo well surely he is not meaning it as something bad, everyone surprise their girlfriends with a back hug sometimes... is there someone in jail for back hugging his girl? If he doesn't know the girl and he do it intentionally with bad sexual thoughts, then this is sexual harassment

    • You never know. Better to be safe than sorry. Of a girl likes, the courts will take her side

  • Certain small things like playing with her dog or helping her do things she likes. Example - she wants to ride motorcycles with me but she is short, 5'. Hard to find a bike that she could ride. So we spent a day going from bike shop to bike shop finding bikes that would fit her. I then test drove each and gave my report.

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  • I make all kinds of things ranging from making coffee in the morning, getting flowers every now and then, sweet text messages, compliment her physically, her personality or the way she is doing things (decisions she takes that I like). All that said I can't tell if she appreciate any of these things.

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  • She is in south Africa , me in the UK. on a morning send her a note good morning and a I love you with a couple of kisses. About 10 mins later she replies It makes it worth getting up on a morning...

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  • I don't have a soulmate and I don't really believe in those and if I did I wouldn't do anything that special because I broke my ass doing everything for my last girlfriend of seven and a half years just to see her walk. So never again

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  • Too many to list haha
    Cuz nobody deserves them! πŸ˜€πŸ˜‚

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    • Ahh look more positive... Some day there will be someone who will deserve all the package πŸ™‚

  • In my relationships I discovered that , if I paid close attention to my SO during our daily interactions , she would reveal her desires without being asked. Then I would give her what she wanted.

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  • I hug her from behind and hold her a little longer than usual.

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  • these opinions are funny because at least 2 of you are getting cheated on rn

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  • Well, she liked to cuddle. And shed fall asleep in my arms. It was so... endearing. But i was forced to break up with the only keeper i ever found, by my parents.

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  • I don't have a S. O right now but I have done a lot for my previous lovers. I would cook them their favorite food to giving massages and sending flowers.

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  • Compliment her creatively and fuck her hard so that she knows that she's wanted.

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  • Hugs and 1 hour foot/legs massage per day, used to be my special gift to a woman.

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  • I dont have a SO but I give my mother a massage every week, according to her I may not be going to hell after all XD

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  • I e-mail him encouraging bible verses or therapeutic self-help advice - cause he is going through a difficult time and I can relate having been through similar things too when I was younger

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  • When I cook for date night instead of us going out. So him coming over and there being a home cooked meal all laid out for us.

    And I'm going to add what he does for me. Really randomly he will kiss the top of my head, tip of my nose, or my forehead and it really makes me melt <3 <3 <3 Especially if he does it mid sentence or word <3

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  • Sending him good morning messages and other little messages through the day letting him know I'm thinking of him and how much I love him. Holding hands lots of hugs and kisses.
    I've just bought a box to make into a memory box for us and I've decorated it with pictures/silhouettes that I feel represent us and our journey so far.
    We hope to live together soon and I'm sure I will get to make him feel more special more often.

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    • For me.. that just annoying. That's just me. What I love is her coming up to me and kissing me or falling into my arms unexpected. Or her flirting with my when she knows I can't be distracted.

      The notes I do for her. Leave little scavengers hunt clues that lead to a special occasion like tickets to concerts or opera. Or I'll leave some porn stories about some roll playing for her to find and read during the week or weeks to build up the tention for something special. I like mysteries and obviously she loves the game.

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    • @Dreamweaver671 thankyou 😊

  • Random cute messages reminding him how great he is, or how handsome he is, or anything that will make him smile.

    Buying little things like his favorite candy or chips while im out so he knows I've been thinking of him

    Anything i can do really that would brighten his day or make his day easier.

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  • When he’s had a long day and goes to bed early, it makes him really happy when I bring him food ☺️

    I don't know why it makes him so happy, but whenever I bring him food in bed he gets really smiley lol

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  • I tell him I love him every day when I wake up, I always cook breakfast for him when he's about to go to work, I clean up the house while he's away and always kiss him when he comes home. We spend some time together doing usual housework, then we watch a movie or TV together in the living room. About 3 times a week we have sex and make a romantic night with each other. It's lots of fun, I care for him as he cares for me. :)

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  • My soulmate goes out and buys me coffee, fast food, cooks for me. In return I wash his clothes, makes him smile/laugh, sing with him, tell him how much I really love him. Now I'm planning something so great for him :) (planning engagement *Oct 17 2019* his first father's day *June 17* & birthday surprise *Oct 22*)

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  • My ex would draw me bubble baths when I got home. About 4-6 times a year he wanted a romantic wine and cheese picnic (I did it one time as a date and he couldn't get over how 'awesome' it was).

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  • I’m a terrible cook but for some reason a guy I used to date loved I when I cooked for him

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  • Cooking for him, especially his favorite meals. He even gets really happy and excited every time i make him pancakes, i can see it in his face expression, and he never forgets to say thank you and how delicious it is. How much more happy he is when i make him a really special meal.

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  • I like to leave little notes each day... of what i think of him... such as "you are so special to me bc __________" I just would write one word each day to discribe him to know thats who he truly is... and what i see in him from me to him.

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  • holding his hand in public, having him put his arm around my waist in public, randomly kissing him when we are around other people..

    Cute little notes to show him how much i love him.

    Being willing to be spontaneous when it comes to sex. Sometimes he wanted to get a bj and i would do it in the car where we might be seen; in a dressing room at Macy's; over the hood in a parking lot late at night after we have been out dancing and drinking.

    Biggest spontaneous moments: sex in his office with the door closed and his employees working right outside; Most recent was giving him a blowjob at Thanksgiving in the back of the living room while everyone was watching the football game, then before he left, we had sex in the bathroom downstairs.

    I try to do my best to be spontaneous and unconventional. I push the envelope to make my man happy. Sometimes, it can be embarrassing for him when i want to indulge his whims, needs, and wants.

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    • wingattebaby16: You must have one sexually happy guy.

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    • Wingattebaby16: Just possibly, you are being too good to them. That is, maybe giving too much of yourself for them, and not keeping enough of yourself to be who you really are. Of course, I don't know that, but think of it as a possibility. Another possibility, is sex enters the relationship too soon, and you don't really get to know each other well enough, before the sex takes over the relationship. Not trying to say you are anything wrong, just possible helps.

    • @markscott thanks... u are very right that sex comes into the relationship before it is a relationship... I do want more conversation, but...

  • I draw a lot so I would draw for him, help with his homework, tutor him outside of school for free whenever he wanted. He bought a new controller for my NES so we could play together and listened to the music I told him I liked.

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  • I will not enjoy sitting isolated in front of a screen for 24 hours, and even though I believe that travel experiences are the best thing that money can buy, I will not be able to savor the vacations much if I keep traveling the world all year round without doing something productive.

    So, anything and everything can make you happy if you just strike the perfect balance between things in this multifaceted life.

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  • I know he likes it when I bake things for him. I also like to take care of him if he's sick/hurt or otherwise in a hurry, so I might help him, run his errands for him or buy food for him.

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  • I don't have one but I imagine that would be the small thoughtful gestures that convey your love for them, like the things that only you as partner know that they would like etc..

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  • I always try and let them know what they mean to me, whether it be an off the cuff compliment or just giving them my full attention.

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  • Things I know he likes, without having to ask for any of it.

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  • Massage his hands, take him out to dinner, and give him lots of love lol

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  • Usually things I'll do is when I come over I buy him this drink he really likes and it helps his health. Also when I leave his apartment early for school or work I'll cover him up in his pillows and clean his room before I leave (he one time told me he always thinks that's super sweet and he never tells me that kind of stuff). When I am understanding or sweet when he is having a hard/busy time at work and isn't able to see me very often or text or call. When I make him coffee or go get water for him. The little things are what are appreciated the most you know.

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