Is it shallow for me to reject a guy who used to date Asians?

I have nothing against Asian women but I find it to be a deal breaker if a guy dated mostly Asians. The reason is because I am a Latina with tan skin, dark features, curvy. My opposite look makes me feels that he just sees me as an experiment not something that he really wants. Or I feel like he couldn't get along with them hence he ends up choosing me. If he is Asian guy himself, I am fine but not a Non Asian man.

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  • You preference is your preference, but I think you're assumption is kind of off base. We all have our stuff though... take me for example! I find that women who have dated/hooked up with black men (unless the woman herself is black) are less appealing. Like the instant I know she has been with a black man, I find her less attractive. I have absolutely no problems with black men as people though.

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  • Sorry, but that is ridiculous. Guys can be attracted to more than one type of woman. If he is interested in you, it's probably because you have good qualities that attracted him.

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    • Yeah good qualities means I look like shit to him. At least physically.

    • There is no reason to think that. He's interested in you, after all. Just evaluate him on whether or not he is what you want in a potential boyfriend, not on the basis of the race of the women he dated.

  • Everyone is entitled to their preferences but you're being naive. This is similar to when women get all worked up when their partner watches some sort of porn that's different from them or their sex lives. Liking one thing does not exclude you from liking others. If a guy dates mostly skinny chicks it doesn't mean he doesn't find larger women attractive.

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  • Yes it is preference don't mean he only likes one type of women the thought of it would be crazy

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    • How can a dude likes both types. It is weird. Especially if the guy is White, I won't touch him after he been with mostly Asians.

    • Why is he restricted to one type of women just because your preference is so narrow don't mean everyone else's is if u want a man that only goes for your type then ok cool but the reason u have was vary shallo

    • For my preferences are vary o0en race don't effect it hight never been a issue only thing that I'm put off by is girls that are massive or others that are too skinny apart from that I see beauty in most women

  • You're being HELLA shallow... like wow... I think you'd be doing the guy a favor by not dating him and saving him from yourself...

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  • Like an experiment... jeez. I don't think that's how guys feel and I'm a bit worried that that's what popped into your head.

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  • Damn. You have some MAJOR insecurities. Do this guy a favor and let him go.

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  • His past is his past, same as your past is your past. Leave it there and let whatever happens happen

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  • It's your choice, but I think you are over thinking it

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  • You got some huge insecurities going on.

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    • Maybe that's a reason why he is your ex. I bet he is looking for a new Asian girl now.

    • No. He's dating a white girl. But please, do continue to make assumptions.

  • What do you think? Is this a serious question?

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    • I'm hella serious. Why would I joke? I just rejected a dude who used to have a thing for Asian girls.

    • Hey man do what you want, but I can't say that it makes a whole lot of sense.

  • Shallow... maybe
    Racist... AF

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  • Yeah, it is.
    It’s your life though, just don’t tell him why.

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