Why are people making a big deal about me not having my first kiss yet?

I never thought it was a big deal, but recently I've been getting a lot of texts from people I dont know on social media making fun of me because it hasn't happened yet, and they keep making it seem like its my fault that a guy hasn't approached me in an intimate way


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  • Don’t take criticism seriously from those who don’t know you, your circumstances or what life is like... in your real world. It’s a good idea if you try to get outside your comfort zone, engage with people in person, and not allow social media to substitute your real social life. There is a big difference, you can control this... you can’t control out there, in the real world, only what you do, and a click of a button won’t save you.
    The only reason I’m saying this is because it sounds like you are talking social media opinions too seriously

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  • Its not a big deal. You shouldn't let people control how you should live your life. If you haven't found the perfect opportunity to kiss someone, then dont force it. I'm 22 years old and I still haven't had my first kiss, and I don't feel any pressure.

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    • LMAO ^^^

    • @JoesCuriousBrain You're being really rude. No one did anything to you, especially her. You're the only person who hasn't been helpful. No one has time to deal with your ignorance

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What Guys Said 54

  • Lol YOU'RE a loser for making it public and the fact that anybody besides you knows. Shot yourself in the foot on that one running to the internet and telling everyone something embarrassing... wow...

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    • You didn't have to be such a fucking asshole about it. I'm already feeling like crap.

  • Don't sweat it. It's funny how important things like that seem at your age, then you get older and realize it was an immature thing to out so much focus on. Some of the coolest and coincidentally prettiest girls I went to high school with didn't get "noticed" by us dumb teenage boys until senior year or college. Enjoy life, focus on yourself, and eventually everything else will come together.

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  • Because people are dumb lol. A lot of social stigma to be more "mature" is honestly stupid. I'm a college sophomore and although I have given my first kiss away in my junior year of high school, I'm still a virgin. I honestly don't care too much. I'd rather spend quality time with someone who I genuinely like than to 'seize the moment' and give my first time to someone simply for carnal pleasure.

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  • You're 15 for crying out loud. Calm down, you don't need to be kissing, dating, or doing anything sexual. You aren't able to take care of yourself yet. I don't mean that to be offensive but it's a fact. You're too young to be worrying about this kind of stuff right now. Don't hang around those people because they are pressuring you to do one thing that will end in a laundry list of dumb things. Focus on your education, your family, and hobbies that make YOU happy.

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    • Bro kids start fucking and doing every sort of nasty in Jr High... i know things are different for these Millennials but I didn't think anti-social tendencies would be THIS bad...

    • I grew up with this stuff going on as well but I always saw it as foolish. The spread of STD's is NO JOKE. Teen Pregnancy is NO JOKE. Abortion is NO JOKE. This stuff is so out of hand. This is why I want to home school my kids and keep an eye on them. This is just awful! I feel so bad for these kids getting pressured and it all stems from places outside the school.

  • Please don't listen to people voice their opinion about your choices. Especially if it's to bring you down and make you feel bad about stupid things. Don't fall into peer pressure. Kids your age love to look for the next thing to laugh that, even if it's another person. The best thing you can do is not not feed it attention. You'll find yourself in a bad place if you do :(

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What Girls Said 18

  • If you share your intimate details with strangers this is what happens. You get judged, bullied, frowned on, ridiculed, so do not do it again. I would have the sense to think to myself that not having kissed yet may well be because you are cautious or did not fancy the guys who offered, not that nobody offered, but who says the idiots who make fun of you have any sense.

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  • Meh you're 15. I was 17 when I had my first kiss and it was my first relationship as well. I was picked on all through school and the popular girls told me I'd never find anyone who would want sex with me. I still remember the way she said "who would ever want to have sex with THAT". Don't worry about it and ignore the people texting or on social media because people are just mean over the slightest thing at that age.

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    • Don't worry about it. It happens when you're ready and it will just sort of sneak up on you when the time is right. Just don't try to make it happen just to get it over with for other people. You want to look back and remember it in a positive way.

  • Forget them. You have your first kiss when you want to. Its something you will always remember and it should be romantic, funny, awkward (in a good way) fun, thrilling or all of the above. I had my first kiss with my first boyfriend. Altho he was a shitty boyfriend.. My first kiss was funny to me bc i didn't realize i had to close my eyes lmao so in those few minutes and fee kisses.. My eyes were opened until i remembered i had to keep them close. I was 19 when I had my first kiss

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  • Tell em a kiss is basically sucking on someone's lip and eating their spit. What's so special about that.

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  • Its in no way your fault. You just have different priorities that those dumbasses. I'm 19, I too haven't kissed someone before. Its so not a big deal, there are other things to worry about than some touching of skin and swapping sliva.

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