I was crushed and couldn't stand being just friends with her while she was dating another guy. I stopped contacting her and now she's so upset and wanna be friends with me. She just doesn't understand what the big deal is if I like her and she's dating someone else. Heck, she even wants me to try to be friends with his boyfriend.
What should I do? Should I just forget her?
Most Helpful Guy
She either values you as a friend but isn't attracted to you, or she's keeping you around on the backburner just in case, as a Plan B.
You've heard a lot of women say "girls don't owe you anything just because you like them". Well, it's a two way coin. You don't owe her anything, either. If you're interested in a relationship but she isn't, one of you will always be let down.
If you can't separate the two, it may be best to just walk away.
Most Helpful Girl
Because girls mostly value friendship and would like to think we mean more to a guy than just sexual/romantic attraction