Most Helpful Guy
"So I don't understand why men complain when they're not at the bottom."
- in Western standards, fat women is equivalent to unemployed and socially inept man.
Who has it harder? Well.. in my opinion, both have their own challenges however... Who has an easier journey to redemption?
In my opinion, the guy has a harder road.
- Employment: well, what does he need to do to have a good job? That in itself is a lifetime of work and figuring out.
- Socially inept: where does he start? How do you get a personality?
Run more eat less. There's a whole world and industry catered to this.
Given the above... i'd still rather be in the guy's position because while i think the women have it easier on the "what i need to do to be more datable" and the dating side... A women's life is still so crazy with social pressure and hormones/emotions.
Most Helpful Girl
I think the only people that have it hard are the ones who don't have confidence. I'm not skinny and have had no trouble with dating.