Most Helpful Guy
First we need to define true love. I think it's when you feel another persons desires and wish to fulfill them as if they where your own.
We don't get that from birth, we don't learn it in school. The only way to know wether you have it ia to look for it and feel it for yourself.
It'd not enough to find a partner. You need to find one, who is willing to work on that with you.
True love does not happen overnight. Having a boy/girl at your side and believing you have found love is like religious faith in my opinion. Sooner or later you will realise it's a fantasy.
But work on it using mutual consessions and rising above differences, taking care of each other daily and you'll het there.
Don't stop untill you are certain, that what you are feeling is love above differences, above hatred even, it needs to be stronger because of conflict. Without glossing over the fact that both are very different.
Most Helpful Girl
For girls, waiting does work sometimes cuz most of them expect that guys would do the approaching. (Depending on the girl's personality)
But if a guy just wait, it would definitely be a long ass waiting. Either way, mutual effort is the key to getting into a satisfying relationship