Granted some partners in a relationship can be clingy and controlling but that's the wrong kind of relationship, I'm talking about a healthy relationship where your partner gives you as much freedom as you need
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Cause tons of people are scared of commitment and just want to sleep around today. Or some of them have that "grass is greener on the other side" mentality cause their always looking better instead of being happy with who they have, or maybe they just not ready for a relationship cause of school and other stuff.2
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Then it’s the individual who is the anchor, not the partner.
I’ve been with clingy girls and my god I would do anything for a moment of freedom but if she offers freedom then I wouldn’t feel held down.
Those types of people are people who have one foot out the door and is looking for an excuse to leave1
I'm quoting from what a friend once said to me:
"I keep finding myself getting into relationships with girls i do like but then i decide to immediately shut everything down as i feel like i need some sort of freedom.
I hate the idea that i can't suddenly decide to go off on holiday with a bunch of my mates because my girlfriend couldnt come or didn't want me to go or if i get offered amazing job in another country/city i couldnt take it because i was tied to someone."
I guess it's the situation