Most Helpful Guys
The last time I liked someone I was not compatible with, I did so because she had a great and consistent sense of humour. She laughed a lot and was always ready to crack a joke (and just have fun with life). She was also pretty attractive too. The problem was that our core values were not the same and this eventually led to the realization that things weren't going to work out between us. Ever since then, I've decided to place more emphasis on values that are important to me in order to prevent myself from going too far and being disappointed by someone who truly isn't a good match for me.3
Girl nothing wrong yet there is always time to change to better yourself. Don't demean yourself fact you did all those things and still keep on moving says you nothing like your mom. You strong. Cause it takes patience to be wise and old. You 23 but wiser. Smarter and stronger. Life is ahead of you. Don't sweat your past. It's there to make us stronger. You're welcome.2
Most Helpful Girls
We were never dating but I always said I'd move on if a guy was an asshole who wasn't interested in me. And well, look at the last guy I was into before I met my boyfriend. I felt I had to beg the guy to give me an ounce of attention and yet he got pissed at me for refusing to move closer to him because that wasn't a financially sound decision. He was in my life way longer than he should've been. A few weeks ago I deleted him from social media and blocked his number, I don't feel bad about it at all. It might be considered petty or childish of me to some people but he also said hurtful things like referencing that I'm comfortable with silence and that I would drive an hour to meet him. I came to my sense and know strongly feel that you should never keep someone in your life who hurt you1
Yes. And his name is Nico. He is literally the opposite of me in all The sense. He is a party goer, does drugs, drinks alcohol, is selfish and narcissistic, extrovert, a flirt, popular, etc.
But he is the happiest person I have ever met. He was intoxicating. And he was intoxicating me.
He literally has all the red flags and dealbreakers for me. Yet, there is this attraction we both have for each other even though he told me he is poison for me. That is why i stopped talking to him and had to leave him. He was changing me for the worst and I didn’t even care. So i left for myself.2