I have a lot of hobbies. I can keep myself distracted. Sometimes, I feel like I want someone though.
The thing is I was in an emotionally abusive relationship for years and it left me scarred. I really dont think I can ever trust anybody ever again.
So I’m just by myself. I don’t try to date nor do I ever plan to on any near future. I feel like I can die alone and be happy.
- No, you need a special someone
- Yes, society implants that idea that you need someone in your life when you really don’t.
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I'm so sorry you were in an abusive relationship.
I beleive there's people who have enough will power/self control to live alone i. e. without a partner, but they're few.
We're created to be social beings and we naturally crave intimacy and love.
However being alone is better than being among bad people.
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Considering you went through an abusive relationship, It’s understandable why you’ll consider being alone to be the best option. I think it’s the best for you anyways. Just use that time to self reflect and find out what you want to do.
yeah it's a myth because I am learning at 14 that you have to learn how to be alone with yourself first.