Should I date a former player? (Page 2)

Question

I’ve met this guy, I’m so attracted to him - he’s super nice, genuine and respectful and treats me well. The only problem is he has slept with over 20 girls in the last 3 years and he’s only 21. I am the first girl he has had feelings for and he is very adamant that he’s done with that and regrets it a lot. All he wants is a relationship but I don’t know if I can cope with a number that high. I know the past is the past but I have only slept with one person and place a lot of value on sex so it’s turning me off him. Please help.

Trollfather · Answer

A former player? Or still a player? You're being baited...

Pandora91 · Answer

I can't tell you what to do... but he's probably told all the girls that line "you're the first I've had feelings for"

jasonjoneslol · Answer

I wouldn't hed be to up held in the sexual emotions

andyken · Answer

And what makes you so sure that he isn't trying to play you too? Clearly it's working so he could've said this exact thing to those other 20 women

00100110 · Answer

Former? Ha! He's playing you right now. Find someone who shares your values and shows it with their actions rather than their words.

Kj_TheKing_kane · Answer

He had his fun, now he's looking for something with actual substance and meaning. Give him a chance

bk2131 · Answer

You should give him a chance, past won't blast your relationship.

ryanveirs · Answer

Get over it and fuck him on demand the way he likes it

woooooooo · Answer

It's too early to know if he's a changed man or not

roody · Answer

once a player, always a player

rmgnow · Answer

I think you're more intimidated than turned off

sillygirlyjfc · Answer

make him prove he's serious, then it's ok

allen246 · Answer

That's why he's a player think about it

short_bit · Answer

Yes, take a risk. People can change

Anonymous · Answer

You better be very careful... eyes wide open.

Mitsamono · Answer

I wouldn't

dontgofalling · Answer

Stay

someuser · Answer

Go for it

bojangles509 · Answer

Key word former

Anonymous · Answer

Nope.

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