boyfriend is completely ignoring me and we live together, what should I do? (Page 2)

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We have been dating for over a year and half and we live together, 3 weeks ago i started a job at his work place and everything was fine we were both excited and looking forward to it. After a few days, he started waking up later, i always had to go to work and back home alone. He started staying up late nights and we only spend time on weekends when we do whatever he wants because he never wants to do my stuff. This week, the 4th since i started, everything was fine on Monday, but he got some bad critique of his work on Tuesday, and since then, he has just locked himself in the bedroom. I have resigned to sleeping a different room, because he doesn't want me there. Every day he comes home, he goes in there and closes the door. We don't talk at work and he pretends im not there if i try to talk to him. He doesn't eat, he doesn't talk to me, he replies to my messages with one word and his sentences, when he writes, have a mean tone. He told me there's nothing i could do to help and to leave him alone, which i have, and i only write to him stuff like' have a good day ' and' there's food in the fridge' to which he always replies with 'cool' 'thanks' 'yeah'. He has done this in the past many times, understandable after a bad day, but he always blamed me for not 'helping' him enough in the end, and blaming me for not insisting on it further to make him talk, but now, if i try talking he flat out tells me to go away and shut up. He has never ignored me like this before, he would usually talk to me and tell me that he needs a day or two and he'll be fine. 
I'm really losing my patience as this happens prettiest often, like i said, and i think he doesn't know/care/understand how shitty this makes me feel. I tried grabbing him some beer the other day since i thought it might cheer him up/relax him after a long day, he flat out said ' i told you i didn't want it.. I was sure you were gonna do this, nevermind'. I don't bug or nag him, and i fear he will start blaming me again

skeetskeetskeet · Answer

I suggest you start pestering him every waking moment

Racerty34 · Answer

If he is ignoring you first think if you did anything to piss him off and then ask if he is cheating. That will surely get his attention and then talk

biggn · Answer

Does he use drugs or use his phone more than usual or come home when he's been out alone and shower straight away? Maybe he has std or something

wheelst1964 · Answer

He's not comfortable with you working at same place and don't want to say anything

SupernovaV10 · Answer

Slap him. That'll get his attention. Or walk around naked.

Justin18single · Answer

Do something to make him notice u he might be depressed or upset about something

KuffarSlayer · Answer

Sounds like man is done with life and just wanna die, There's nothing you can do really, Just leave him and move on

woooooooo · Answer

Maybe he has family problems or going through hormones

opurba · Answer

Have sex for a cause or for a great reason.

pookybear123 · Answer

Sounds depressed to me.

OatsnWhey · Answer

He sounds really depressed.

417deepwoods · Answer

Dress kinky flirt or kinda sext with a guy

shyguy87 · Answer

Yeah must say depressed

donell · Answer

Grow up! Get a man, not a boy!

Jake47 · Answer

Everything will gonna fine..

smalltowngirl04 · Answer

Tell him asap

lowbrow · Answer

Is he depressed?

iamnash · Answer

Ask him

ryanveirs · Answer

fuck me

LeseE · Answer

Take a break

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