Would you date a guy that is less attractive than you?
What Girls Said 28
It seems like that's the cycle that I'm stuck in. I take a lot of time and care with my appearance. I have a good makeup routine, and I dress nicely everyday, trying to stick with the trends. I would consider myself pretty attractive.
The guys that go for me are never that. It probably has to do with my personality. Although I dress like them, I don't act like 'plastic' girls, the ones that are popular and usually quite dumb. I'm very loud and proud about being myself, which means I am unapologetically and passionately a nerd and quirky. That attracts guys that would otherwise find girls intimidating, in my opinion, because I am open and welcoming to everyone.
I've gotten some pretty unnatractive guys. I actually dated one with a pedo mustache. That was a bad relationship. I gag every time I think about it. Of course, that was an extreme, and the gagging isn't from the way he looked but from the emotional suffering I endured during that relationship.
Now, I'm dating a guy who is a large step up, in my opinion, from the last one, but I don't think he is extremely attractive. It just tends to happen that the guys I date are the nerdier type and therefore don't have the looks that I am usually interested in. Still, I care about them nonetheless, and this guy is truly a godsend.
In short, I definitely would date a guy that is less attractive than me as long as I am not disgusted by the way he looks. This is what tends to happen anyway. I stopped trying to get guys that I was attracted to a long time ago and realized I should just settle for these absolutely amazing guys that are just a bit less handsome.1
I think it would be weird to compare my looks to a guy's. I'll date a guy only if I personally find him attractive. So it doesn't matter if someone else doesn't find him attractive or think I'm more attractive than him thus I should date someone with the same physical appeal as me.2
I’m Demisexual meaning I need a mental, emotional connection to have sex. I do experience raw sexual attraction, but that is mostly with women. For the men I date they can be a 5, or beter🤷🏾♀️ I’m quite average looking so I don’t want too much0
Yea, I would. I had a 'reputation' in the past for dating unattractive guys. But I really just didn't care much about looks.0
Honestly personality is what makes a guy attractive in my opinion.1
Most of us may go to people who are attractive but at the end of the day Good character matters.1
My friends think my current crush is “okay” but I think he’s much more better looking1
If they're intelligent and funny or just have a great personality, hell yeah.0
Beauty is subjective. I would date a guy who would at least put some effort into his appearance but being physically attractive isn't everything.0
I was about to ask why that's even relevant, then I saw you're 16.0
There isn't a guy who is less attractive than me 😂😂😂0
Probably, though if he was less attractive than ME, he would be UUUUG-LEE.0
Looks aren't the most important thing. Personality is key2
Yes. His personality is all I look for. I've learned that guys who may be cute on the outside, aren't always so cute on the inside.0
I'd prefer him to be average like me, which means the same league.0
I have and would again. Not trying to toot my own horn but let’s be honest...0
Because I believe looks are just a bonus. He could have the most amazing personality1
I wouldn't want to date a guy more attractive than me so yes0
I usually do.0
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