Most Helpful Guys
Ask yourself, say "self, what kinda girl do you want to be?" If you want to be an old fashioned kinda girl, don't bother with him. If you want to be a have sex and see if there's a connection kinda girl, fuck him. If you're not sure, you don't know until you try, right? Just be honest with yourself, and him.
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Most Helpful Girls
Yes and no.
Yes, if he's interested in more than just a vagina. And you will know if all he wants is sex. He'll be curious about YOU, your thoughts, ideas, hobbies... whatever.
If all he wants is a hookup, and more hook ups, well... everything will be pretty sexually based.
Decide what you want, go for what you want. And listen to what he says about what he wants.
One step at a time is a fine philosophy. Just pay attention while you're going along and getting to know him. Know what you're willing to accept for yourself.
Remember, you can't change a person.