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As a mom, pedophilia.
As a woman, domestic violence. You have a past history, you’re gone. My kids and I aren’t going through that again.
6 months ago, I’d have also said cheating. Cheat on me, you’re gone. I’m not giving you another chance. Cheated in the past? No chance at all.
However, the guy I’m currently seeing, I asked why his engagement ended with his girl of 9 years. He told me he cheated on her. Instantly, I wanted to call it off. But then I thought about how he’s been to me, how he treats me, how he has never cheated again, and I appreciated his honesty about it. I reconsidered. He’s too good to me to throw him away for something he did over 10 years ago and had never done again.
So he gets a chance. He isn't a man of affectionate word says but his actions and treatment of me, his respect, his loyalty, how even though we are from two different worlds (he’s had a great life and is rich, I’ve only known abuse and loneliness my entire life and I’m poor and single with 5 kids. He has none) he treats me this way, he is giving me a chance and he never judged me on anything but my looks and personality, they speak everything. I’m a huge part of husband life and he cares deeply about me. And he knows I don’t care about his money. I would still want to be with him if he lost it all tomorrow. I’m not throwing away a good man because of a mistaken he made and learned from. If he did it again though, on me, it would be over in that instant. There would not be another chance
Superficialism, dominating, and narcissism
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