Is it true that we strive to be with the people who make us the best version of ourselves?

Pretty self-explanatory lol

would you rather be with someone who challenges you or someone who is “easy”? 🤔


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  • No it's not. It's true that we strive to be with people that treat us the way we're used to be treated.

    If you're used to be treated like shit, and you yourself treat yourself like shit, you'll go for a person that does the same, and will discard the other people as uninteresting.

    Same if you strive to be the best version of yourself.

    • So if you want to be the best version of yourself, you attract the people who want the same?

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    • Very interesting! I have heard people talk about how dating someone makes them a better person or a better version of them self

    • Not necessarily. If you both strive for mutual growth, then sure.

      But few people go into a relationship with that mentality.

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