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My friends ask me that question a lot so I have a bit opinion about it. It is strange that the time we can actually seek a relationship is also time when you make something out of your life. I wish to grow more as an individual and it so happens as I see that people in relationships do grow but sometimes with sacrifices and their growth also leads for them to grow apart from each other. I think when you know for fact that something is certain to happen then it boils down to what you want in life.
Seek for happiness. I had my losses and know what it feels like to be heartbroken. I still deal with that but I keep my mind to things which I want in life. At some point, I will find someone but by then I believe I will be at much better position, much more worthy for her and give my better self to that person.1
Because of social anxiety that was fairly bad many years ago that prevented me from approaching girls and asking ones out that I shoud have. As a result, have only been with a few girls. But unfortunatley have the desire to be with more girls, because of what I felt I left on the table, especially considering, I've always felt I'm an attractive guy and very funny and charming. But I didn't take the chances so that didn't mean much. So as a result, it's been hard wanting to get in a relationship and just wanting casual or non commital relations with women, becaue I do want a serious relationship. But it's made me really desire to sow my oats, because I didn't in the past. And like don't want to turn the page until I do so. But this sucks, because I would end up meeting a great girl and not be in a relationship and then regret that. But I need to fix this because even if I met a great girl, this will still be there and I think would ruin a relationship I'm in.
Not because I would cheat but it would be on my mind. I want this all behind me, so I feel it's best I do so, and which I have been meeting some girls, though not ready to give up single life just yet. But it sucks because girls are kind of my redemption even though I'm not lying to any of them. I kind of am still using them becaude of the reasons I'm wanting to have casual sex.0
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Because I’ve been hurt, lied to and cheated on so much that I’ve lost the ability to trust someone new or the wish to find one, as at the end of the day they will leave me with another scar, and only bring more pain after some temporary happiness. I’m just damaged1
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I hate to be that person but honestly cos i dont wanna. I feel too young to get into a proper committed relationship where i can't just walk out when i want to cos feeeeeelings exists. and its so much work i dont want more stuff on my plate.3