What do I do about a guy who will disappear for 2-4 weeks every 4-5 months from health problems?
When we first started dating he told me one day he was having problems and then I did not hear from him again in almost 3 weeks when he resurfaced during a scheduled date and told me he had gone to the hospital and did not feel comfortable talking about it online. Then things were going well - we were talking every day - he seemed interested - and then disappears again - for another 2.4 weeks. I haven't heard from him since August 3rd and he hasn't read any of my messages since August 6th. I know because there is a glitch on my phone that allows me to see whether or not people have read my messages. He is supposed to re-start school in a couple of weeks so I am thinking of meeting him at school if I don't see him online until then. I don't know if I should cause I don't have a lot of friends but people might think I'm weird if I show up at a school that I graduated from when I am not taking courses there. I also made the mistake of telling everybody I graduated so it might look even more awkward if I were on campus - people would assume I'm not working.
This is the truth for me, how about you? Do you agree with this woman who told me to mind my own business? If a guy never expressed his intention to be exclusive why would he get angry? How do you get over the feeling that all women are the same? Are women who do not want kids a deal breaker? How many women & men here dont want kids?
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Ditch him. It sounds like it's either rehab from drugs/alcohol or something worse.
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