My boyfriend says I’m his first love but by the looks of old FB messages, he seemed to love his ex. He told me he was desperate and after two years of talking to her, he thought she’d stick around. It seems to me he loved her. He says he never did and he was just desperate. His dad’s girlfriend even said I was his first love and the rest was puppy love. What’s the difference? Is puppy love still love or infatuation?