- Ask on actual date
- Ask to hangout
Most Helpful Girl
I think state your intentions tight dorm the start to avoid misunderstanding. Based on her response you will get good idea if she has the same interest in you.
Most Helpful Guy
Typically my dates go like this:
Date 1: Meet for lunch or coffee. Get to know the basics, feel out the chemistry. Answer the question, does it seem like we both want to sleep with each other? Yes, no, maybe, or heck yeah. If no, then there is no next date. If heck yeah, then we have sex. If yes, then we often plan to have sex on Date 2.
Date 2: If we have not already planned to have sex, then answer the question: Are we going to have sex or not? We need to make up our minds so we are not wasting time.