Who would you rather date an Outgoing Person or a Easygoing Person?


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  • Who would you rather date an Outgoing Person or a Easygoing Person?Outgoing Person: Comfortable in social settings and interactions; confident in dealing with people especially in meeting new people; gregarious.
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  • Who would you rather date an Outgoing Person or a Easygoing Person?Easygoing Person: calm, relaxed, casual and informal, unhurried.
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Most Helpful Girl

  • I mean, it's entirely possible for a person to be both outgoing and easygoing... However, if I had to choose between the two, it'd be easy-going because I'm quite highly-strung and anxious myself and it'd be good to have someone to help calm me down.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Can't I have both lol, I would really like an outgoing person but I suppose an easygoing person would be more my style if I had to choose, wow so easy going it is

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  • I'm having such a difficult time contrasting these two terms and treating them as mutually exclusive. My wife is a combo of both, for example.

    If I try to imagine them as exclusive, then my idea of "outgoing" but not "easy-going" might be like a business-savvy girl who really has her shit together and is extremely organized and sociable but a bit on the serious and busy and ambitious side.

    Meanwhile if I think of a "easy-going" girl who isn't the slightest bit "outgoing", then I tend to think like a stoner type who just sits around all day in the house and doesn't like to go out so much.

    Both of those are not so appealing to me, but I might go with "outgoing" in that case so that she'll at least join me for social events. I spend too much time indoors as is because of my job, and wouldn't want to be with a girl who just encourages that side of me that wants to just stay all day in the house and relax playing video games or something.

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    • I prefer "work hard, party hard" types to "never work, just chill at home", if you will. Though ideal to me would be a balanced individual who knows how to moderate and balance things out.

    • Might be looking at this all wrong. Pitting these two terms up against each other is a bit confusing to me, since the most outgoing and sociable people I know are also easy-going. That easy-going nature is what lets them navigate social settings and be so easy to approach and talk to while making friends left and right.

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What Girls Said 4

  • An easy relax person, its more a for sure to have wonderful memories on a first date. I think anyways. :-)

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  • Outgoing for sure

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  • Not sure why it can't be both.

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  • Someone betwixt the two

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What Guys Said 18

  • Easygoing- I love a relaxed personality.

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  • I need a yin and yang of both. I'm outgoing myself but a loner. I would date someone who's out going but wants an option and also gives me an option to chill.

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  • I chose easygoing because I'm easy going I feel that it's just easier to be with a easygoing person they are relaxed non judgmental and are not in a rush all the time.

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  • Easygoing Person: calm, relaxed, casual and informal, unhurried if I had to make a choice but someone in the middle would be even better.

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  • I'd prefer the outgoing person, since she'll be more likely to take the lead and show me a good time.

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  • I would choose an easy going person but with a few outgoing and adventurous traits as well...

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  • Good question but both are good.

    If easygoing was phrased as quiet you’d have different results

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  • I am looking for an outgoing person, who knows when to be relax.

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  • Am kinda cool so I'll like outgoing type, or why not the combination of both.

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  • I definitely prefer an easy going person

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  • Easy going... hands down

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  • Easygoing, hands down no questions asked.

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  • Easygoing because it suits my personality more.

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  • I'd be happy with either one.

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  • outgoing

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  • Easy going person.. calm and relaxed date..

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  • Those two aren’t mutually exclusive

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  • any one is fine

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