I’ve noticed he tends to get cold like this with specific friends. I think maybe he feels insecure around those friends/family members and thinks they’re more attractive than him/better at getting women or something. But, my boyfriend is a good looking guy, and he has gotten with many women before so that’s not the issue.
Also, the specific friends I’ve noticed he gets weird around are sooo far from my type of romantic interest and friend interest (tbh, I kind of just deal with them because they’re his friends). But, I try and be nice and ask my boyfriend questions or talk about the night we had with them.
I don't know. I just feel weird sometimes about it.
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Because he's worried that his male friends and family will judge him for being overly affectionate with you. Society says that having emotions and being tender are feminine traits, and that if a man displays them then he's less of a real man than other men who don't do that. Which is bullshit, by the way. He needs to be more mature and secure in his masculinity.